Do you select the home that you like or do you eliminate the ones that you don't?
People often ask me "How many homes will we have to look at to find the right one?" There's no standard answer to this question since it varies from client to client. I've had several clients look at just 2 or 3 homes and find the one that they ultimately purchased. One of my clients went to see a single home, placed an offer and moved in within a month. (Granted she had looked at dozens and dozens of homes online, but only physically visited one.) That's a rarity, but a REALTOR's dream, especially with today's gas prices. Then there are clients who want to see every single home on the market in their price range.
I'd say that the average homebuyer steps foot into between 8 to 12 homes before making a final decision on which one to purchase. Much more than that and you may get weary of the home search. Viewing much fewer homes means that you may be missing out on the best deal and the right fit.
No matter how many homes you view, real estate is a process of elimination, not selection. It's all about narrowing down the field, finding out which ones won't work, until you're inevitably left with the best option. Very logical, to be honest. What's the chance of picking out one perfect house out of the thousands and thousands that are available? Isn't it more likely to eliminate the ones that won't work and taking a closer look at the few good candidates?
Think about any competition. For example in the Miss America contest, 50 beautiful women appear on the stage in front of the judges. The judges don't just view the 50 gorgeous women and immediately select one as a winner. There's a series of competitions -- talent, bathing suit, evening gown, interview, by which the field is narrowed down to semi-finalists and finalists. Once the field is winnowed down to a smaller group, each contestant is scrutinized more carefully.
In real estate, it starts by creating your wants and needs list. What's important to you? Location, schools, commute, amenities, size, price range, fireplace, backyard, security, granite counters, etc. You'll start at the top of your list -- the most general and start eliminating.
Have you ever played 20 questions? It's that game where one person thinks about anything in the world and another person has to guess it within 20 questions. You start by asking broad questions and narrow it down. Thus, you'll begin with asking the famous "Is it bigger than a bread basket?" or "Is it something living?" This will quickly narrow things down so that later on you can ask such specific questions such as "Is it green?"
The same goes in real estate. First, find and establish your price range. Next, decide upon a location. Then get more specific and start eliminating homes. Start looking at homes online by requesting listing to be e-mailed to you at www.SearchHomesbyEmail.com. Once you've got the field narrowed, then you can start looking for things like hardwood floors, granite countertops, and stainless steel appliances.
Now, it's time for a closer look. Visiting homes you'll see whether there's enough closet space. Does everything appear clean or did the sellers just dress it up for the online virtual tour? Is the neighborhood really how you thought it would be? Whoops, we didn't know the train would be so loud!
I'd be happy to show you as few or as many homes as you like in your home search in Northern Virginia or D.C. We'll quickly eliminate those that don't work for you and find the one that does.
Whether you are buying or selling, choosing the right Northern Virginia REALTOR works in much the same way. Here's some criteria to get you started:
- Look for one who has been in the business for more than 5 years.
- Find a REALTOR who is not only an agent, but also a Broker.
- Only 4% of REALTORS have earned the coveted Certified Residential Specialist (CRS) designation. Find one of them.
- How about a REALTOR who is also an attorney and worked for a real estate law firm?
- Choose a good negotiator.
- A technologically savvy REALTOR with a blog, websites, and who knows how to market.
- You're going to spend a lot of time with your REALTOR in the next 30-60 days. You want someone with personality and a sense of humor.
Eliminate those that don't fit these criteria and then give me a call at 703-626-0715 or contact me online.
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Brian
Great thoughts for all of us in this crazy business. When I show I educate the client that they really only want to have 2-3 true favorites, and as we look at house #4 one of them is eliminated. I also remind them that the house they see today, someone has seen yesterday and may be making a decision to buy today. A good thought for them is that if they called me tomorrow on a house they saw today and find out it is sold would they be crushed, then that is the house they should get. There is no magic number as to how many homes to look at, but to always remember, they are in competition with other buyers all the time.
Brian,
This is a Venus/Mars thing...The first house I see that suits my needs is mine...my wife must see every house to make sure the 'best' isn't eluding us!!! JMHO, Thanks, Fran
Morning Brian, what an interesting way of looking at the home buying process and... you're absolutely right. From a consumer's point of view, it sounds like the exact process I went thru. Excellent post!
Brian,
Trying to get through the 20 questions is a great start.....the online abundance of sites that have homes makes the process a bit smoother because as you said they have seen many before they come to us....
I have been as few as one home and purchased.....however, they did a lot of homework before they even contacted me.
Great post and points here. I have learned alot about realtors and what to look for since we have had our home on the market for some time now. I have purchased a couple of homes and worked with them during transactions but found that in this day in age.... next time I want to see their internet presence as well as local presence for a listing realtor. It makes a difference.
GREAT POST. I HAD ACTUALLY NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT THIS WAY BUT IT REALLY IS A PROCESS OF ELIMINATION. I GUESS YOU COULD LOOK AT ALOT OF THINGS THIS WAY IN LIFE. YOU WEED THROUGH UNTIL YOU FIND WHAT YOU REALLY WANT
THANKS AGAIN
DANIEL
Brian...you're spot on! Choosing by definition means elimination of what we don't want. I like the way you shift the focus here and show it's application to the real estate transaction. And...boy, the standards of beauty have changed over the years haven't they....Very good post.
Brian, these are great points you make. The process of elimination is different for everyone - but it helps when Buyers are clear upfront about what's most important to them. It's our job as their real estate broker / consultant to help with the clarification / elimination process. Good post.